The Ancient Brain Newsletter

One weekly email to help you understand why you feel, think, react and get stuck in the patterns you do.

Each week, I write about the hidden psychology beneath modern life: why we avoid, overthink, shut down, people-please, chase achievement, fear rest, lose confidence,  or repeat patterns we thought we had outgrown.

Drawing on clinical psychology, performance psychology and over ten years of practice, I explore the ancient instincts still shaping modern life: stress, shame, fear, ambition, identity, connection, rest, relationships and what it means to live, relate and perform well.

Is It Love or Limerence? How to Tell the Difference 
Matt Slavin Matt Slavin

Is It Love or Limerence? How to Tell the Difference 

A reader wrote in with a question: how do you tell the difference between love and limerence? Between truly loving someone and simply being unable to stop thinking about them? Drawing on the ancient Greeks, modern neuroscience, and the psychology of desire, this is an exploration of what separates love from obsession and a set of honest questions to help you work out which one you're really feeling.

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You Are Really Good At Being Scared
Matt Slavin Matt Slavin

You Are Really Good At Being Scared

Explore why the human brain is built for threat detection, how fear shapes what we see and hear, and how emotional regulation helps us shift between threat, drive and soothe.

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On Shame pt 2:
Matt Slavin Matt Slavin

On Shame pt 2:

a psychological exploration on the origins and developmental process of shame

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